When to ask are we dating

No one wants to date some one who does not talk, is boring or nervous.

I am asking because I don’t know if this agreement is assumed on your part or if he explicitly said, “Yes, you and I are exclusive…” or, better yet, “I want to be exclusive with you.” I’ll explain why I bring that up in a moment, but at any rate I agree with you that checking his dating profile seems out of step with having an exclusive relationship with you…

I also wouldn’t even classify this as snooping, per se. You didn’t somehow break into and read his emails or texts.

It’s reasonable to interpret that as meaning you’ve agreed to not date anyone or sleep with anyone else, but I want to ask: when you agreed to be exclusive, how did this come about?

How clear was his side of the agreement to being committed?

As such, some of the comments (which I have preserved) bring up points that I have since addressed in this revision.

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