Heck, I’m probably losing interest in someone right now, completely unbeknownst to myself but setting the mind of the poor lass on fire, and not necessarily in a good way.
One saving grace is that most people, male or female, usually aren’t doing this stuff deliberately.
It’s more accurate to attribute this kind of behavior to cluelessness rather than malice, with also makes it easier on you.
Now, there are as many reasons why anyone might pull away from a budding, new relationship as there are stars in the sky.
However, I want to talk about one of the most common reasons why men lose interest in new relationships that previously seemed promising.
Then, after what feels like a super intense connection and budding relationship, suddenly he cools WAY off.
Suddenly, he gets harder and harder to get ahold of or goes dark entirely, leaving you to wonder why he lost interest.
There he was, showing up outside your castle window every day in his mostly shiny but frankly also a little rusty armor, strumming his lute and warbling his troubadour songs. Now, I don’t know exactly what was going on in your particular situation, Sheila, since I wasn’t there.