Maria Konnikova was the first to raise the point while writing for the New Yorker: “With social media, we can easily keep up with the lives and interests of far more than a hundred and fifty people.But without investing the face-to-face time, we lack deeper connections to them, and the time we invest in superficial relationships comes at the expense of more profound ones.” Dunbar supports her claim.
Every relationship is different and so the things that work for yours won't always work for everyone else's.
The things that don't work for others might work for yours.
Texting has become an integral part of our communication these days that just like emailing a set of etiquettes needs to be established. Vary your response time, be a little unpredictable. If he texts you regularly, you can initiate once (as a part of being unpredictable) say for every 5-6 texts he initiates. Be direct cause guys don’t like reading long messages. You want a guy who steps up and leads so if he’s slacking in his way of communication, you taking charge in the matter won’t make him want to do it more.
Believe it or not, guys sense your character and personality and judge you through your texting habits so a mishap here and there might kill a blooming interest on their part. Sometimes you wait a day, some other times a few hours, sometimes right away. If he texts you “good morning” or “good night” every day, beat him to the punch one morning/evening by doing it first. Quite the opposite it dampens his motivation to do so. Be imaginative, creative, witty and flirtatious in your response. ” you can instead say “tell me something that makes my knees weak” or something playful like “do you know that kissing burns 68 calories/hr? I need something stiff.” But don’t overdo it either ’cause then you appear overacting.
Having more friends means you’re seen by your peers as being more popular, right? Once upon a time, Facebook was all about adding; more social used to equal more fun. We’ll take a look at some reasons why you should start deleting some of your Facebook friends…