Among other things, find out whether you are comfortable sharing your man’s time with his children, having his ex-wife in a future life with him and whether you are comfortable with the state of the relationship now. Don’t see him too often, meet his children too soon, get intimate right away or move in together.
This will give you enough time and space to get to know the man and assess any potential problems, such as his financial status, his ex-wife or partner and his emotional availability.
Choices based on the present but without enough regard on the past.
These similarities make me think it is wise for women to ask four questions before dating a divorced man.
It takes a large amount of selflessness, patience and understanding for such a relationship to work. Find out everything you can about him as early as possible.