Where do we look, what do we look for, how do we develop a relationship, how do we sustain it?
These are all valid questions many of us grapple with daily on our search for romance.
It’s not worth it to attach yourself to one who desperately needs help and freedom himself. Your life should be greatly cherished by the man who calls you his wife. The Man Still Tied to Mama - We all love a man who loves his Mom.
Humility, compassion, love, and respect towards others are much more admirable characteristics than simply the externals. There is deep respect for those who care for and show love to their parents. When the guy you’re dating still has every bill paid by his parents, they control every decision he makes, and he cares more about what Mama thinks than what you think - newsflash – struggle is ahead.
We make lists of traits we’d love to see in a future husband, longing for Mr. Often when our interests are sparked and feelings are flowing, we can get swept away and even lose sight of what is true. There’s no reason to settle for relationships that are unhealthy or even harmful. 10 Characteristics that Should Raise a Red Flag: SEE ALSO: How to Graciously Speak Truth in Love Online 1. The Addict – This man needs freedom that can only come by admitting there’s a problem and seeking counseling, professional help, and the strength that God can bring.
The Unbeliever – Marriage can be hard enough at times, add to that the pressure of deeper spiritual disconnect, and you may be in big trouble when the normal stressors of life occur. Addiction to alcohol, drugs, or pornography will lead to destruction.
While these are general guidelines and might differ from your exact personal experience, they could greatly benefit you during your search for a godly man or woman.