There is a tendency among German men to date women who are much younger than they are.
For some reason, the most common searches that drive Googlers to my site involve “how to date an Italian.” Actually, many of the keywords that people enter into the search box are not appropriate for me to repeat.
I consider my blog to be rated “R,” but apparently many of you (and you know who you are) are searching for “X-rated” material. However, I love reading the comments on these posts, which are often hilarious and occasionally quite insightful.
I just swiped right on you because I thought you were attractive. What happens if you meet a really great guy, and he is genuinely your type, but he just doesn’t meet your height requirement? He deserves to be turned down because he is shorter than you want. At that point, feel free to tell me and other guys, “Hey, I’m not interested.” I’ve gotten to the point where I’ll be messaging back and forth with a girl 10 to 15 times.
I am going to message you something to the effect of, “Hey, I see we’ve matched on here. Now, I’m not saying you can’t have standards or preferences, but if you’re going to hold men to those standards, don’t complain when men hold you to standards, as well. Ladies, I’m telling you this right now: No one cares. I’ve asked all the questions; I feel like I’ve got her life story and this girl has failed to ask me anything about myself.
Well, I already knew that we were doing it wrong, but this reader explains “how.” I guess I should also point out that this discussion mostly includes Italian women with men from Australia, the U. Men from other parts of Mediterranean Europe or South America might not struggle as much. So what I’d like to do here is to present her comments, and then offer my observations in response.