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‘We have these things called munches – a gathering in a pub in plain clothes – and the point is to make friends.
‘The lesson to take away there is not to “date”, but to date from an affinity group. ‘There’s every chance your friends know them and it’s common to ask someone’s ex what they’re like.’ ‘You can’t go into any dating community with a sense of frenzy.
When it comes to my love life, you’d be forgiven for thinking I was a masochist.