So it really doesn’t make any sense for me to try to replicate any of them.
You mention that you miss it, so you are experienced in BDSM. Have you considered a purely text or phone-based BDSM relationship (as in, you never meet physically)?
I'm happy that you and your partner have talked about boundaries. Or are you a Dominant, and you want to be in control of someone else?
You have discovered the online dominance and submission community.
Even more importantly for you, you believe you are a submissive and now wish to find a dominant for yourself. *begins laughing herself to tears*) Allow me to share with you what I have learned in four years in the online bdsm chat rooms.
There are thousands of men out there with the word "Master" in their name. 1) 99.9% of all men online who say they are Dominants, are not. Make sure he isn't hiding anything the best you can.