You might think that this phrase is an oxymoron; how can there ever be such a thing as ‘optimal’ anxiety!
Well, if you’ve ever pushed yourself to achieve something you’ll know that a bit of stress can pay dividends.
And sometimes, this person might just be outside that neat little boundary you’ve drawn for yourself.
Now imagine yourself proactively seeking someone who doesn’t fit in your ‘type’ from any angle. Here are five reasons why you should step out of your comfort zone and ‘type,’ and date someone who shatters all your ‘type’ expectations. Push your boundaries Being with a person who likes what you like, wants what you want, may sound like a dream come true, but it can also limit your experiences. S Friends are that support system in your life which never runs out of batteries.
But people continue staying in their comfort zone, afraid of straying from the same type of person they've always dated, and my theory is that the type of person they tell themselves they're attracted to helps to tell a narrative or sell an image they're trying to project to the world.