I know it hurts my feelings though that he chose to masturbate to other girls instead of having the real thing with me… Because of his actions, I feel that i am not attractive to him anymore. Fears about sexual activity harming the baby or anxiety about childbirth might team up to sap your sex drive.
Okay, I admit, not having sex for a while is getting to me cause I am still young and virile. You say “he understands that”, but I certainly don’t. At first, hormonal fluctuations, fatigue and nausea might sap your sexual desire.
So last night I went to bed naked thinking he would cuddle up again and perhaps have sex, but no, he didn’t. Your husband is afraid that having sex will hurt the baby. And until you start communicating like an adult couple, your sexual problems are likely to continue. As your pregnancy progresses, weight gain, back pain and other symptoms might further dampen your enthusiasm for sex.
He sent her pictures of the baseball game he attended. She told him about her car trouble and he responded ‘why didn’t you ask me to come help? And, most importantly, how you can take control of the situation – like a grownup! If you are like Sue, Lila or Melissa, here is what you need to know: Continuous texting, when void of in-person meeting, creates a false sense of connection.
Do not assume that getting a bunch of texts from a guy means you are having a relationship. If a man is choosing to only text or primarily text, he’s not showing signs of wanting to get to know you in a meaningful way. Whether it’s because they found someone else, were just playing or because they got scared — that’s 100% immaterial. You feel like you are getting to know one another, but that is not what’s happening.
My husband and I haven’t had intercourse lately because I am pregnant and he’s afraid it will hurt the baby.