Perhaps the best advice you can give someone about having a relationship with a married man is telling her not to even start. As my friend Jenna* told me, "You can't help who you fall in love with.
The love of your life just might be a married man." Being part of any couple can be challenging and unpredictable, as we all know.
Other Resources: 10 Great Dates Before You Say “I Do.” Want to help couples discern if they are right for each other—even before becoming engaged?
Then this video-based curriculum, disguised as fun dates, will help you help couples decide if they should take the next step toward marriage.
If you want to get married, these sites, they say, are the ones to use.e Harmony"e Harmony was good because it forces dialogue prior to a meeting and actually does 'match' you according to some stated preferences and what you have in common. I am happier than I have ever been in my life." Match.com"I had given up on finding someone organically.
But allows you a more refined search, and the percentage of a match they show you is fairly accurate too.
Your own survival is crucial, and if you do happen to fall in love with a married man, there are several hard truths you need to know. The needs of the many (namely, his family) will always outweigh your needs.