9 out of 10 guys are now completely cool with being asked out. For the most part, ladies still think guys should speak up first.
While you figure out the math, let me be clear that I’ve met several other women in their early- to mid-20s who also prefer to date from a much older pool for various reasons.
And while cliché dictates that, sure, men are into it, there’s been some recent research done about younger females often gravitate toward mature men.
Now, I’m not saying these are conscious reasons why dating a man quite a bit older—there have been several moments when I’ve thought that going out with someone closer to my age would be much simpler.
I even tried it when my boyfriend and I took a short break, and I found it was painstakingly difficult and more complicated than my experience dating an older guy. The texting games (How long should I wait to text him back? It’s exhausting), the fear of commitment that plagues most twentysomethings, and the simple fact that most guys my age aren’t as emotionally mature as I am.
Some studies show that a women in not interested if she don’t return the call after two messages. Always try to maintain eye contact, as it is the primary and powerful tool for attracting a potential date. If your ex came your colleague then leave hopes, as it usually will not work. Women don’t fall in love easily, it will take 14 dates for them to fall in love.