Before you join, the app has to approve you as a member (a slightly daunting process) or you have to be invited.
If you want to unlock certain features you either have to pay or invite other to join.
The best way to find the site that's right for you is to think about what you are looking for and what personality traits are most important to you, then view our comparisons to see which sites offer the best membership base for you.
Just because a site ranks #1 on our list, doesn't mean the site has the members or offers the type of relationship you want.
Whether or not you believe in fate, it can certainly feel like fate when you meet the love of your life.